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SHALOM Fellow Paradoxians and welcome to the new Hebrew Paradox….ok just kidding but it is nice to always learn something new but sometimes we all fail to complete the learning process by actually committing to the end. For most off y’all you’d have already figured out that is my girl friend who is actually forcing me to write this post but hey why not have some fun with it lol.
Its is said that from the beginning of time persons were destined to search near and far for the one they can call their soul mate, or just for a burger, and at the end of that journey they would find true happiness which is true but what happens when the brick wall is reached when one party wants to commit and the other just wants to party. So what is did was to break this into segments to see how each sex feels about devoting themselves as man and woman in holy matrimony. Today we shall be looking at the guys, why? cause I’m a dude and my girlfriends asleep so you can only get my view right now.
Quick Know-IT : Commitment is the state or quality of being dedicated to a cause, person, activity, etc.
Its is said that guys tend to Fear or Run away from commitment likely hood of that background is true but there are a lot of factor that causes that pushing away action. Some of such factors are:
– The letting down their guard and loving another
– The fear of being “tied down” to a girl they may be miserable with
– Missing out on trying to own their persuasion skill aka the hunt or looking a cattie
– The fact that they will have to learn to give the other party they’re all
– Restriction (conditions applied)
– The thought that was placed in their head to say that as much as it’s a beautiful thing it also a death wish
And these are some of the excuses why guys may not take the leap of faith with a girl they may or may not love. As a guy i do have to say that a lot of girls may not understand that due to the factor of being grown in a certain way by fathers to be a gallis, womanizer, player or whatever you may call it and beginning to enjoy the hunt it makes it harder (but not impossible) to become a committed person. The truth is most male persons who are even in a committed relationship cheat on their partner because they are used to the fun of the flirting, hunting and even capturing stage that is mainly found in meeting someone new. So girls, give your partner time because even if he still believes he has to hunt for fun at the end of the day he wouldn’t want to lose you and dudes as fun as it may see you have to respect your partner and control you ways because she is grown in a different way (which you’ll hear about next time) and more attached to her emotional side (though far from a weakling) because if she loves you, truly loves you, she will stop the world for you but you have to be willing to do the same.
THANKS FOR LISTENING FOLKS AND REMEMBER LIFE IS ABOUT LEARNING, APPLYING, FAILING, THEN LEARNING TO BECOME BETTER. HAVE A GREAT DAY AND SHARE THE LOVE WITH ALL YOU SEEMS DOWN.
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